Find out how to overcome the sexual anxiety!
Sexual anxiety is a real problem. However, it is something you can get rid of! And that is some good news, ain´t that right? Well, just read this article and you will find out!
The truth about sexual anxiety is that it does not have to be what you think it is. There are many things that are to blame for it and you will need to find out what is causing it. Because if you do not you will not be able to get rid of it. And that is proabbly not what you want. So, what is the thing that is causing your sexual anxiety? Well, let´s have a look together!
First of all, sexual anxiety is most often caused by the fear of not performing well. Usually, it disappears with time. Well, supposing you are dating the same person for a long while, however, it can also be caused by other fears. For example, the fear of getting pregnant, or a past trauma. Anything that makes you uncomfortable during sex can cause anxiety. That is why it is important to know what is causing yours. Otherwise you will not know what to do in order to get rid of it.
Well, being in a relationship and having sexual anxiety is quite upsetting, however, it is nothing unusual. You have to learn to deal with a problem and the best way to deal with this one is to do it together. Because with it, your sexual life can never be as good as it was before. And you probably want it to be good, don´t you? If yes, then read and learn!
- Do not worry about orgasm that much. Sex is not only about it. And you are not only defined by your orgasm.
- Value yourself as a human being. Respect yourself and the way you look. Learn to accept yourself and others will accept you too.
- Do not worry about others and their opinion. You will feel a lot better once you stop I promise!
- Focus on your thoughts, your fantasies and the things you want. Pursue them!
- Do not compare. Do not rate. It is useless and nobody really cares. In reality, sex is never the same as it is in the movies. So do not try to make it that way.
- Be happy to have it! Enjoy it! No matter what it is. It does not have to be perfect, or does it?
Do not worry, sexual anxiety will not ruin your sex life but you need to do something about it. If you think that you cannot handle it on your own, then talk to your partner and if you cannot do it together, then go to a doctor. It is not a shame to ask for professional help, so do it while you can!